Keys to the Ferrari

Episode 45: Dr. Ashley Samson (Professor in the department of Kinesiology and Health Promotion at the University of Kentucky)

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Ashley Samson, professor in the Department of Kinesiology and Health Promotion at the University of Kentucky. We dig into the evolving conversation around mental health in sports, the pressures athletes face at every level, and what it really means to coach the whole human—not just the player.

🔹 “I Wish I Had That” – Dr. Samson reflects on discovering sports psychology after her own athletic journey and how crucial it is to have those resources early on.

🔹 More Than Just Toughness – Athletes are expected to be resilient, but anxiety, depression, and burnout are real. The old “just push through” mindset is finally starting to shift.

🔹 Credit to the Trailblazers – Athletes like Simone Biles, Michael Phelps, Naomi Osaka, and Kevin Love helped blow open the doors on mental health conversations in sports.

🔹 The Pressure Is Everywhere – From youth leagues to the pros, there’s pressure to climb the ladder, perform, and not show weakness. But that mindset comes at a cost.

🔹 COVID Changed the Game – When sports were suddenly taken away, many athletes were left questioning their identity. It forced a reckoning with mental health that had been long overdue.

🔹 Two Things Can Be True – “I’m grateful for this opportunity” and “I’m struggling” can coexist. Athletes need space for both.

🔹 Coaches: You’re Walking a Tightrope – Dr. Samson gets real about the challenge of balancing the need to win with the need to care for your athletes’ well-being.

🔹 Love for Mark Pope – A shoutout to the Kentucky men’s basketball coach for developing great players AND great young men. It’s not an either-or.

🔹 Youth Sports: More Pressure, Less Play – The culture has shifted. It’s more about rankings, clubs, and leveling up than joy, growth, and development.

🔹 Multi-Sport Athletes Win – Physically and mentally, playing multiple sports acts as a protective barrier.

🔹 Your Kid’s Identity Is a Pie – If the “athlete” slice takes up the whole thing, burnout is likely. Encourage balance—and praise more than just the stat lines.

🔹 Playing Time & Fairness – Everyone pays the same, but not everyone plays the same. We talk about when it’s time to prioritize development vs. competition.

🔹 Are We Trading Development for Trophies? – Is youth sports too focused on short-term wins instead of long-term growth?

🔹 Transfer Culture Trickles Down – Don’t like your club team role? Just switch. But is that really the answer?

🔹 Ferraris vs. Civics – One of the best quotes of the episode: “Some kids are being given the keys to a Ferrari when they just need a Honda Civic.”

🔹 The Resource Gap Is Real – At the youth level, the top teams aren’t always the most talented—they’re often the most well-funded. It’s a reflection of society.

🔹 The 50K and the McDonald’s Run – We wrap it all up with a wild story about what inspired Dr. Samson to run an ultramarathon... and how McDonald's might be the real inspiration.

And of course... MORE HOT TAKES!